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The Magic of Inverness

I think Inverness is my favorite place on earth.  With its rolling forest covered hills, Oak and Bay trees, calm ocean inlets, chirping birds and wild life – it’s simply majestic.   I love everything about being home in the Bay Area.  From driving in my mom’s car, to stopping at the Apple Box in Petaluma, to walking the dog (must do that) up on the mountain, to wine tasting in Sonoma – it’s all great.  But nothing beats Inverness and Pt. Reyes.  I grew up on Sonoma Mountain, so the wine country (the more arid country) was familiar to me.  But Inverness was introduced to me when I became friends with Helena when I was about 20.   Helena and I had a lot in common.  We had both recently moved back to northern California after living in France.  We both liked theater.  I think we met in an acting class, which given how different our lives have become seems odd.

Random, but just as I was writing this, I found this article on Yahoo.  I woke up in Inverness and spent the morning drinking coffee in Pt. Reyes.  I love this town!

Point Reyes Station, Calif.

Population: 818
Nearest City: San Francisco, 39 miles
The dilemma in Point Reyes Station is what to do first: explore Point Reyes National Seashore or just wander around and eat. At Toby’s Feed Barn, second-generation owner Christian Giacomini runs a farmers market, gallery, and yoga studio, while still selling hay and salt licks. Also inside, the baristas at Toby’s CoffeeBar pour cappuccinos with rippled hearts in the foam. Nearby, Cowgirl Creamery produces excellent soft-ripened cheeses, such as the Pierce Point, which is made from organic whole milk, washed in organic Riesling, and rolled in herbs. When you’re ready to experience some nature, Chicago native Laurie Manarik leads hiking trips to see seal pups and conducts nighttime kayaking excursions to check out bioluminescence in nearby Tomales Bay. The bay’s oysters, it must be said, are the best around. Eat them where locals do—up the road at The Marshall Store. The beautiful scenery may make you want to put down roots. “After my first visit after college, I spent the rest of my life figuring out how to live here,” Manarik says. — Scott Hutchins

Garbage on the city; my summer getaways

I spent most of my weekends getting out of the city as much as possible. As most New Yorkers know, New York is a stinky, sweltering shit hole in the summer. Okay, it’s nice to sit outside at night when it’s still warm to get a drink…and it’s great to get indoors to air conditioning as much as possible. But the weather outside is steamy and gross — and smells like garbage. Sorry, New York, I’ve got to be honest. And I’m not so much of a Hamptons girl. If I’m going to get away, I mean, let’s get out of town.

Anyway, moving on. My getaways have been awesome so far. In early June, we spent a weekend in Northern California, which is where I’m from. My husband has taken up our family tradition of going for Abalone at our summer home at The Sea Ranch. It’s beautiful in Northern California, as anyone who has spent time there knows. For me, however, my trips are always about catching up with friends and family.

For the 4th of July we spent the weekend at my friend Gabe’s converted barn in the Catskill mountains. 30 people – both new and old friends – were in and out for some great food, conversation and frolicking. There were kittens, a pool table, ping pong, ice cream, a swimming hole, a hot tub and many rounds of Horse Shoes. I know that sounds weird, but it was all mucho fun, that was very needed.

In mid July, we were in Maine for a wedding. I’ve never eaten so much Lobster in my life. We did a little sailing, kayaking, dancing, Lobster eating….and Lobster eating.

Last weekend I met up with my husband in London, which was incredibly brief but super fun. We had an unforgettable 5 course meal at a place called “Gaston” and stayed at a super cool hotel called “The Zetter. The free espresso machine down the hall from our room was enough to make this one of my favorite hotels of all time!

I’ve been to London many, many times. In fact, how I ended up moving to New York had to do with a English beau (a Captain in the British Army no less) and a London job-offer that turned into a New York job offer….

So I’ve spent much time in the UK, and feel very at home there. In 2006, one of my favorite plays “Below 14th” was produced in a festival there. I brought my mom and we used the Tube to go everywhere….it was such fun.

This time, we saw the “Changing of the Guards” at Buckingham Palace, spent time wandering around Notting Hill, and even saw the Tower of London, which was interesting considering my interest in the Tudor era of history. On the plane ride home, I watched the film: “The Other Boylen Girl,” which helped seal the deal on the Anne Boylen story. By the way if anyone is interested to know more about Henry’s wives go to this link.

Now I’m back to New York City, and it’s not so bad. I’ve been working pretty hard this summer, so the weekend getaways were just that: short moments away to breathe. I started a new online marketing job in April and it’s been stressful. To keep up with it all, I’ve been doing pilates, yoga, dance class and swimming on a regular basis. For the past three weeks, I’ve been drinking NONI JUICE every morning. And you know, I’m feeling better. I have more energy. This is a year of lots of change. I’ve done very little with my playwriting this year so far, but I am working on a new play and that’s exciting.

Weekly update….

I had a play reading tonight of my new play. It was so cool, because I was so relaxed (for a change) — and shocker, it was really good interesting stuff.  It’s coming along.  Now I’ll I have to do is write the second act.

I write in little (and I mean tiny) spurts.  It takes sometimes two days of procrastinating to write for 20 minutes.  But once I am invested in an idea, then, well, I can’t help but want to write because I fall in love with the characters and their dramas. I want to find out what they are doing…

Anyway, what else is new?  Uh, Hillary!  I want a miracle to happen.

I’m watching the final two episodes of the Tudors….it’s really good. I take back everything bad that I said about the casting.  It’s really fantastic.  Poor Anne.

Saw SATC on Saturday night with my girlfriends — loved it.  But who goes to bed with a string of pearls?

Always look your best: a note from a slob

It’s Sunday. It’s raining out and although I am thrilled to death that I have no plans, at some point I must venture out. Will I work out? Get my nails done? Go to lunch with my husband? Go to a playwriting group? Check yes to all of the above! So even though I have some cute outfits, I never wear my Sunday best. I wear whatever is nearby — and I always look like crap. My hair is in a bun and I usually wear my pink Converse and something scary. To be perfectly honest, I wear clothes that should be thrown away – and it seems to give me pleasure to looks so awful. Maybe I am rebelling from having to dress up to go to an office day in and day out. Maybe this desire to be a pig stems from growing up in the mountains, or the fact that I once lived in the outback for thirty days and wore the same four outfits and never took a shower.

But now I’m much different — during the week if you catch me I usually look pretty nice — and lately I’ve even been keeping up on my hair, it’s “coiffed.”

My grandma had a mantra — and it was always look your best — you never know who you might see. My granny always looked like a million bucks, and my mom always looks good and they’ve always been harping on me about my appearance. Well, I learned something recently —

One Sunday, I was uncharacteristically trying to look a little dapper. I was trying to look cute, which I should just give up on that plan: it’s Sunday, it won’t happen. We had lunch plans with another couple, so I tried a little bit harder than usual. No, of course I didn’t shower — but I swept up my hair into a bun and then put on a Fedora, green army jacket, pink sweater draped over super tight jeans and high brown boots. This little number was almost chic for a Sunday in the West Village, but it was borderline. I sort of looked like I belonged in a J-Lo video or perhaps I was auditioning for the next Indiana Jones movie. So the next day, Monday, I had a big meeting at work — my corporate job — and I decided to wear the same outfit. Of course, I didn’t notice how tight the pants were until I had to back away from people and avoid bending over lest I wanted them to see my butt crack. What possessed me to wear my Indiana Jones outfit to work? I’ll never know….but that outfit still remains one of my worst Sunday fashion choices that should have never, never, never been one of my Monday choices.

Elephant Art

Check out this site devoted to elephants learning to paint.  It’s amazing. Elephants are the bomb!

Dream about Britney, being the creative one

Sometimes I dream about Britney Spears.  I always wake up, like what? Why was I dreaming about Britney?  Of course she surely represents something or someone else.  This last dream was about a house that was about to fall off of a cliff into the ocean.  Only half of the house was grounded, the other was “not safe”.So yesterday I met with the animators on a new cartoon I am working on. It’s so weird to go from a job where I am “not allowed” to be creative into one where I am the creative.  I’m much better when I can talk creative — cause I am really crazy and if you let my mind go forth – great ideas will come….  

Baby Boom

 Is it just me, or does it seem like everyone is having babies all of sudden (not counting Angela Jolie who has her own tribe)?

I spend all my time (and money) in the myriad “baby stores” in my West Village hood buying for my friends and co-workers who are having or just had babies; and for some reason this “baby buying” is my duty and responsibility (just like doing the dishes, or cleaning or making dinner), and not my husband’s. I have a budget for it now — “baby gifts” — dude, it’s adding up!

Analyzing my friend: why she can’t meet a guy

  1.  You collect stray dogs
  2. You know the bartender at Henrieta Hudsons (you claim to play pool there)
  3. You take in female only foreign exchange students
  4. You are an expert at tipping at strip clubs
  5. Weekends away are always with girlfriends

New Year, New me

2008 started strangely. I had gotten the flu over the Christmas holiday – in fact, it was so deep this flu that I ended up in the hospital. You know it’s a bad holiday vacation when the highlight is getting an IV drip. Yep, that’s how my 2007 ended. But suddenly, on December 31st, a day after my IV drip, I found myself back on an airplane and then back in New York City for New Year’s Eve. Ugh. But life was about to get MUCH better. My hubby and I had been invited to hang with a friend on a sailing yacht in the Caribbean. So a private jet and a lobster sandwich later, I was hanging on the Drumbeat with three Russian dudes and a crew of ten to cater to our every need (one of them was my husband). Suddenly, life was very relaxing. The sun was so friendly to me. I had no idea that what I needed was a little Vitamin D. Let’s see – highlights….

  • A personal chef
  • Having my girlfriend flown in from San Francisco “just because”
  • Having a dance off with Dmitry
  • Out swimming the dudes – with no fins
  • Cocktails at sunset
  • Watching Master and Commander while we were under sail
  • Listening to blasting classical music while we did a night sail
  • The jungle hike to the waterfall

And now, I find that I’m in a better mood –

My husband told me to go to bed instead of blogging

But here I am! Sneaking a blog post at work. I keep talking about this Hillary/Obama thing. I can’t take it. We need to pick a candidate – and I want them both to win. I do. But here’s the thing — Hillary is smarter that Obama, and she is pretty in person. She’s not the monster that the press make her out to be.  She’s tough and she does her best to hide it, because she’s a woman.  A politician needs to be tough — and Hillary has to apologize for being smart and cut throat because she’s a woman.  It really bugs me.   I’m sorry, but I can’t just jump on board to Obama’s train.   He says the same thing over and over.  Where’s the substance?  My husband, who says I shouldn’t blog, likened the candidates to Coke and Pepsi drinkers. I don’t drink soda anymore, but if I did, I would drink Coke.Coke vrs Pepsi